6 Phase Guided Meditation with Binaural Beats | Vishen Lakhiani

"Pay me now, pay me later, either way you pay"

Here's the missing part of the "repeal and replace"  Obamacare happening in Washington.   Disclaimer - Jamaicans say "cockroach nuh business Inna fowl fight" but they also say "Mongoose say if yuh nuh tek chance yuh a nuh man", so here we go.

Ever since I landed in Canada at 17 years old and got acquainted with our universal health care system, I have been wondering why a huge country like America doesn't have the same thing for their people.   After all, I believe, and could be wrong, that before Obamacare sickness was the number one cause of bankruptcy in America. Would be interesting to see the stats for bankruptcy and also for emergency room care before and after Obamacare. 

Back to the point.   I've listened to the Republicans and they all talk about how horrible Obamacare is, yet the polls say something different.   Could it be possible that "it's crumbling " because what's what you've spend the last eight years doing, making sure your supports don't sign up and blocking bills that would ensure that it succeed? Also, I have not heard anyone talk about who pays for bankruptcies, or who pays for the hightest costs of emergency room care. Who pays for employment insurance, disability benefits, welfare and other social benefits when people don't get preventative care and end up with a health crisis?i could go on but I think you get the picture. 

Fact of the matter is everybody pays. You pay now, or you pay later but you still pay. One way cost more and causes way more suffering and the other way is more orderly, compassionate and cost less.   It comes down to a choice, and this choice reveals a lot about the collective consciousness of the society. 

Time to be honest folks!

Over and out,
Blessings, 
Beverley 

Our Reputation Goes Out In Front Of Us

Mother Lydia - my fave pic.

Have you been in a situation where someone's name is mentioned and as spontaneously as we breathe there is a remark or story about the person?  This is a classic example of "our reputation going out in front of us", good or bad!

I can still hear my mother's voice echoing these words, "your reputation goes out before you" (all be it in Jamaican Patois)  to all of us as children, admonishing us to be honest, responsible, trustworthy and conscientious citizens.  So far as I can tell, her admonition, as well as the teaching and example set by our school teachers, Sunday school teachers and community members worked very well as myself and my siblings have lived honest lives and raised children of high moral standing and character.

What has now been accepted, accommodated and excused in politics would never be tolerated in a corporation or even from public servants, so why have citizens of the so called first world countries allowed the political discourse to sink so low?  How conflicted are people that they tell their children to be honest, caring, kind and then elect and defend people who publicly display behaviour and character that is the exact opposite?  Research and life experience clearly demonstrate that children learn what they live.  In other words, children absorb the way the people in their sphere of of influence live, and they are very quick and honest about calling out double standards and dishonesty, trust me, I know.  I remember how I was when I was young, especially once I hit the teen years!

What long term effect will this "do as I say but not as I do" political climate have on our society in the long term?  What role, and where does the Christian community stand the all this "bedlam" that has been unleashed? How much damage is being inflicted on the Christian community, especially with the so called "Evangelical leaders" that as a group seem to have compromised themselves by publicly defending what has now been labeled the indefenceable? The term "presumptions sin" comes to mind.  They consciously condone sinful and unsavoury behaviour as a means to their end to knowing that they would be forgiven.  This action is short sighted as they overlook the damage, hardship and paid that is inflicted to further their selfish end.  And this is not confined to "Evangelical leaders", we see it at work, at home within families and in other group dynamics.

I have come to the conclusion that some people are able to see only the potential benefits of their ideas and actions but are somehow not wired to see risks and consequences.  In my lifetime, I can say though that the consequences are inevitable.  It is scripture, it is scientific, Newton's Third Law - "For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction."  What does this mean?  Words have consequences, behaviours have consequences and these consequences are unavoidable, the degree of the consequences cannot always be measured, and sometimes end up being much worse, or even catastrophic than can be imagined at the time.  Only with time, consequences become evident, hence the saying "hind sight is 20/20".

It takes a life a lifetime to build up a good reputation, and it can take only a minute to destroy it.
We cannot afford to be overcome by evil, but we must overcome evil with good.  This is how the scale will be tilted.  It may seem pointless to hold on to our good principles that have guided our lives when we see some of the things that are being accepted and tolerated and excused.  Do not give up, don not fold, stay strong, keep your resolve because in the end those of us who stay true to our principles will stand.

Stay steadfast my friends,

MissSam
Saturday 18, 2017

The Mastery Of Love - Book Review

I finally finished!  Started reading this book for the second time last summer but only finished it a few days ago.  I purchased the set of three books by Don Miguel Riuz in 2009 and read the first one, The Four Agreements, right away.  Cannot believe it took me so long to read this gem.

Don Miguel Riuz has given the best explanation and analogies of how we get and accumulate emotional hurts.  Simple and easy to understand, his wise words  give the reader a new perspective of how we get the "emotional parasites" and how we transfer the "parasites" to those around us.  He teaches us that with awareness, we can decided to choose the "track of fear" or the "track of love".  He also reiterated what we know as Christians - "It is not your reasoning mind that controls your power; it is what you believe" he writes in the chapter God Within You, "whatever we believe rules our existence, rules our life."

The author also give us a new insight as to our responsibility within all of our relationships.  The truth is no one is responsible for how anybody feels, but we are responsible for how we respond to others who are hurting.  My take away is that the ultimate goal for each person on this journey that is life on earth is to get rid of our "emotional parasites", heal our wounds and become whole.  The closer we get to wholeness the less reactive we become and the more responsive we become to our fellow human beings.  Only then, can we really learn to love unconditionally.

There is a lovely prayer at the end of the book, one that I plan to repeat daily for a long, long time.

Blessings,

MissSam
Monday February 20, 2017