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Wednesday, April 24, 2013

THE U.S. UNDOCUMENTED WORKER & MY MORNING SMOOTHIE





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Morning Delight!

 Who would have thought I would be eating - er, drinking Dandilions, yikes!  Shortly before I moved from my home in Brampton, my neighbour begged me not to spray weed killer on the front lawn, his wife, he said was ill so he would go out and picked the Dandilions to use as medicine for her.  My neighbour was great, he was one of the original Vietnamese boat people who loss everything in his old country and then risked his and his family's life to get to Canada.  He worked hard and made a great life in the Canada.  We would cut each other's lawn, mostly he would cut mine. 

As I gathered my herbs and vegs together for my morning smoothie ritual I  relished the lushness of the green Dandilion leaves I thought of my former neighbour.  My mind then quickly shifted to the U.S. "undocumented workers".  How much more would these vegitables cost if it were not for the cheap labour of the undocumented worker?  Would it even be possible for me to readily purchase these vegitables and herbs I have now made part of my morning ritual?  It is so easy to be self-righteous and pontificate about how much these workers "take away from the "hard working Americans".  I say hogwash!  I doubt if a real honest study has been done about the true value these folks who work in harsh conditions, low wages, no benefits and pay taxes and can never legally get much of the services provided to citizens and legal immigrants.  Take  the undocumented workers out of the equation and the economic ripple effect would be felt in unexpected places.  Like me, who just got on to the smoothie bandwaggon and is loving it.  It is loving me too because everywhere I go people who know me want to know what I'm doing, they want to know the secret why my skin look so bright and glowing.  I have more energy, not feeling hungry much, can go the whole day with just a very light lunch and not tired and listless in the afternoons like I used to.

But back to the very contentious issue of the undocumented worker or "illegal alien" situation in the U.S.  I have pretty much stopped watching most of the news programs on that side of the fence because the views expressed by some hosts, guests, including politians are just so toxic it is unhealthy to expose oneself continuously.  Yet, one doesnt need to be Nate Silver to figure out that the agricultural sector of the economy and food security of the country would be greatly compromised without the abundance of "cheap" labour.  Could there be a great conspiracy to keep the so called broken system in place?  Just saying, eh.

Canada has a Guest Farm Worker Program which is not perfect but it seem to be working better these days than back 15 to 20 years ago.  I cant wait for summer to get some homegrown herbs vegitables but it's seasonal so the reality is, I will always need U.S. and Mexican fresh produce in the off seasons.  I will be paying keen attention as the debate over the future the the 12 plus million lives unfolds in the United States.

In the mean time, let me drink my herbs and vegitables to my good health.

Cheers,
MissSam






Monday, April 22, 2013

AN EARTH DAY MESSAGE TO RESIDENTS OF HARWOOD

Dear Goodly neighbours,

I've been living in the community for 3 years now and I just love it.  I love that I'm just a hop, skip and a jump from High Park, although my price is waaaaaaaaay below High Park prices.  I love that I can connect to the Humber Trails form various points.  I love that I'm just 7 minutes from Keele subway station & 15 from downtown, on a good day. I love the topography of the area - hills, valleys, gullies - so beautifully, especially at nights.  I love that I'm 5 minutes from the local golf course.  I love that you are such quite neighbours!

What I dont like is that you do not teach your kids to put their trash in the multitude of trash bins around!  I am totally not cool with the litter on my walking routes.  The city workers are  always so prompt in clearing the snow from "the steps", I designated the cardio portion of my walking route and other paths, but I just cannot stand the sight of the pop bottles, coffee cups and wrappers for various eats strewn along the way.  I just cannot comprehend why anybody would want to leave garbage in their own neighbourhood.

Yes, I know you're all hard working folks, and you pay such keen attention to your yards and gardens, does this extend out to the community as well?  All the paths were school children congregate or frequent are just littered with trash, expecially now that the snow has melted.

How about this, tell your kids if they have to walk and eat, put the wrapping/bottle in their backpack till they spot garbage/recycling bins.  Sit on one of the many convenient rest benches and eat, the garbage/recycling bins are right there.  Like everything else, children have to be taught not just to care for and respect their own property, but the property of others and their community.

Then my walks would be that much more enjoyable - comming upon a mother hawke teaching her baby to fly in the spring time, listening to the merriment of birds chirping so loud at the welcome of spring and not being distracted by wondering why, oh why do people litter!

MissSam
High Park In Springtime

Golfing at Scarlett Woods



"The Thaw"

Saturday, April 20, 2013

Daily Musings of MissSam: THIS ONE IS FOR JUSTIN TRUDEAU

Daily Musings of MissSam: THIS ONE IS FOR JUSTIN TRUDEAU: As I drove out on to the main street on my way to work a few weeks ago, I thought about my walk the day before, how much I enjoyed the scene...

THIS ONE IS FOR JUSTIN TRUDEAU

June 1, 2013 - Updated

I recentlly received an email from Justin Trudeau asking what I would say to Stephen Harper, the answer is same as I'm saying to you!  Regardless of who is the Prime Minister of Canada, my wishes, desires and hope for the country are the same. I have now updated this blog post to include some thoughts I didnt get in before publishing the first time.  Interestingly, what is happening in the Senate and the saga with Mayor Rob Ford really make this blog post even more relevant!


Published April 20, 2013

As I drove out on to the main street on my way to work a few weeks ago, I thought about my walk the day before, how much I enjoyed the scenery and how blessed I feel to be living in Toronto, "the City within a park", I conceived the idea for this blog.  In retrospect, now that Justin has been formally selected as leader of the Liberal Party of Canada, I regret that I didnt finish the post that night when I started it.  Nethertheless,   the work has only just begun, so I'm right on time in that sense.

What do I as a Canadian really, really, really want for my country?

Like most Canadians, I'm a transplant! Canada has been home for the past 39 years, except for the 2 years in my rebelious youth when I was supposed to have it all figured out and returned to Jamaica, and swore I would not come back.  I love this country, and I am constantly reminded of how blessed we are and how good we have it here.  No regrets though, those though as that's how I launched my career in financial services.

Every time I go out for a walk, whether it's in the neighbourhood or along one of the many trails I am amazed as to how much there is.  Every community has tennis courts, basket ball hoops, benches, gardens, community centres.  One thing I know for sure, those city & provincial politicians, planners got a lot right in the last 25 - 30 years.  The fact that I can walk from Lake Ontario at Sunnyside beach to Steeles Ave on the gorgeous trails on the Humber is nothing short of amazing!  There are so many trails, parks and gardens in our city that it would take years to explore them all.  Yesterday as I entered the downtown core on my way to a workshop on Bay Street I just oozed with awe as to how much the city has grown in the last twenty years.  And this is not the only time, it happens every time. Does it sound like I'm in love?  Yes, I'm in love with the City of Toronto, my Province and my Country.

As I contemplated the progress this city and country over the last 40 years, I thought, how would I like to see this country in going forward, and voila, this idea was born!

What I do I want for my country:  Smart politicians with fresh ideas.  I am tired of the same old, same old.  I want politicians and policymakers who ware smart and bold enough to step it up to the 21st century.  Why does it take 30 - 40 years for policy  and laws to catch up with the results of scientific and social science research?  Most of which the Government actually pay for, than stacked in warehouses to gather dust.  That's a crying shame.

Take for example the idea of current Prime Minister, Stephen Harper and the Conservatives who think building more prisons is the answer to society's problems with people engaging in criminal activities.  When, in the history of the world, has the presence of jails stopped people from committing the most gruesome acts?  Recommended read:  Erich Fromm's A Sane Society & Escape From Freedom, written in the fifties and still so relevant today.  But there is a mountain of scientific research readily available on brain function, social behavours, human development from conception to adulthood etc that policymakers can use to create smart policies that would definitely lead to a more dynamic, intelligent society but old school politicians are stuck in the past.  The last thing Canada need is a U.S. style prison industry, which in my humble opinion is the new form of slavery.  Neither Government nor private enterprize should  be in the business of running jails for a profit, that is outrageous!

Honesty in Government - I want my Government to be honest, and I want clarity.  I have a beef with EI, and I've had it since, forever.  Unemployment Insurance is paid for by employees and employers, and therefore, this money specifically belong to the people of this country to deal with unemployment and employment related matters only.  Under NO circumstance should EI funds be used to fund anything outside that mandate, otherwise it is not INSURANCE, it is a tax.  If EI is a tax, then call it a tax and call it ET!
In its current state is resembles a tax more than insurance because everybody who is on a payroll has to pay it, sutdents who will never be able to claim, retired people - yeah, why do retired people who are on full penion still required to contribute to an insurance plan they will never be able to collect from? 

Politicians, Policymakers & Government who are visionaries - If you are unable to craft a vision of a greater future and can only deal with the day to day, you should not be in a position to run this great nation.  "Without a vision, the people perish" - this is from the bible, but it is as relevant in people's personal lives as much as the Federal, Provincial, City and Municipal Governments.  That's why now, in 2013, the largest and most dynamic city in the nation - TORONTO, is now just debating, a comprehensive transit strategy!  The suburbs have mushroomed, there's gridlock everywhere and this just didnt start a few years ago.  How long did it take Mississauga to build out?  And nobody paid attention to all those studies about trends!  They focused solely on what's in front of them, it's too expensive, blah, blah, blah.  But how much more expensive is it today?  Smart politicians surround themselves with people who are visionaries and can spot trends - we need trend setters not just followers and copy cats.

Politicians who can engage the young - The generation behind the boomers need something to be excited about.  Boomers were hell bent on changing the world, and change it we did. According to my son, sometimes not for the better.  But the sixties and seventies were exciting times when the young were engaged and eager.  That type of excitement needs to be ignited in the young, after all they will be running this place when we are old.  That's why new leaders must be bright, engaging and bold.

And isnt it time the Health Ministry get up to speed with alternative remidies and recognize the fact that Canadian's are spending millions and millions on alternative remidies and therapies not only to treat health maladies but to maintain good health.  I remember 20 - 30 years ago these practices were totally snubbed, with constant warnings about the dangers of herbal remedies etc.  As the use of herbal remedies continued to increase, the tone shifted from "this will kill you to measurements and safety", meanwhile, the large conglamorates started to jump on the band waggon. Surely there are enough research to substantiate their use, and that is why they have become "mainstream" in use and availability. Now entire sections of every pharmacy is stacked with every herbal remedy imaginable! Still  there is no medical tax credit available and they are not covered by health plans.  Over the last 12 years I have spent substantial dollars to get myself health and stay health all the while keeping it natural.  If I spent the money on traditional prescription medicine I would get reimbursed for covered portion from my private health plan, and get tax credits for amounts not covered. 

I want a tax system that is fair.  Majority of Canadians dont mind paying tax, but they object to politicians taking their money and living large, wasting resources while continuing to squeeze the life force out of their citizens and behaving like they are entitled and above the law. 

An overhaul of the education system is long overdue.  Schools should have a curriculum that actually prepares student for the real world!  I know both my children took business and law courses in high school but these were optional courses.  These courses really helped them not only prepare for university but also with  vital life skills. Life skills - yes, there should be mandatory life skill courses for every grade level and by the time a student is graduating high school, they should have basic financial literacy!

No to mention the legal system!  This "old boys fraternity" needs to go!  Canadians need a legal system that they can have confidence in, and that's all I am going to say about this right now.

So you see Justin, the world is changing, Canada not only need to keep, but to be a trend setter and standard bearer.  Are you sure you still want to be Prime Minister?

It is appropriate to congratulate Justin for his victory in the leadership race.  Now, roll up your sleeves Justin, because there is a lot of work ahead.

Good luck and God speed!

MissSam

HUMBER TRAIL, FALL 2012

FALL IN THE CITY

Monday, April 15, 2013

Saturday, April 13, 2013

Daily Musings of MissSam: EVEN MORE ON LABELS

Daily Musings of MissSam: EVEN MORE ON LABELS: I dont believe even + Joel Osteen can fathom how deep this topic of labels run!  Every day there are encounters, situations and incidences t...

EVEN MORE ON LABELS

I dont believe even +Joel Osteen can fathom how deep this topic of labels run!  Every day there are encounters, situations and incidences that deepen my awareness of the impact and implication of labels. 

Take for instance last Sunday I got a  pleasant surprise call from a friend who retired in the Caribbean.  We exchanged pleasantries and catch up a little bit, then she passed the phone to her husband who is also a good friend.  This fellow has a son who I'm mentoring, about the same age as my daughter.  I mentioned to him that I spoke with his son the day before.  He immediately launched  into a verbal diarrhea as to why this guy doesnt have it to gether, he's this and he's that, spewing out label after label! I listened and then I interjected and reaffirm the young man, stating emphatically that I  know he knows he "messed up" but I believe he is really truely and ernestly trying to find his way in life.  That stopped him dead in his track.  He now listened as I reminded him that I'm a "my mother's daughter", my mother doesnt give up on anybody, and neither do I.  I told him that everybody need somebody to believe in them, even when they dont believe in themself.  His said, "girl, that is true, I agree with you".  Tone changed, conversation changed, and I am sure after getting off the phone he must feel better knowing that someone cares about the son he gave up on.  Time will tell, but I can only speculate that based on past experiences, once he sees the young man starting  "straighten up"  he will do a 360, or even a 180 will be a good start!

The truth is nothing happens by accident or chance, everything happens for a reason.  As "the world turns", things happen to bring the will of God to pass.  This young man had relayed some of his childhood experiences and the begining of the "unravelling" of his life when he hit the teenage/young adult stage.  I understood culturally where a big part of the problem was, but then there was also a huge generational gap.  Parents and children in these situations just talk past each other, nobody listens to the other!  I didnt have to say anything, but from that brief conversation I got confirmation that it would be impossible for the young man to have a discussion with his dad. 

It's been said that we are all assigned souls we are charged with, I can relate because how this young man came into my path is quite by what we would call chance but looking back I know instinctively that it is part of the unseen plans of God, and it is truly amazing.  For some strange and unknown reason back in 2003 or 2004 enquired about him and at that time he was in the throws of teenage revolt.  I was told that he was "throwing away his life", and "he'd better straighten up". I suggested to the dad at the time that he needed counselling and even went on to tell him I know of a couple of counsellors who are very good at what they do and this kind of intervention might be the right prescription.  His response was typically of people who do not understand the value of coulselling and  psychology/psychiatry and intervention therapies.  I left it alone - leap forward 6 or 7 years, I was a gathering where he was also in attendance, we chatted and the rest as they say is history.

A friend of mine was having some trouble understanding why her only son left her after he graduated from university and went out west to work.  They had just purchased a home, her first, and she had big plans for them, but they were her plans, not his.  The plans were not presented to him as a participating partner, but as a child.  She didnt take it so well when I told her how I saw it.  I enlightened her to the fact that as first generation immigrants, we chose to bring our children here and raise them in North American culture, so we have to adjust otherwise we will alienate them.  She eventually got it, and now she is a blessing to others facing a similar challenge.  I cannot take credit for this gem, I give the credit to my son who brought this to my attention when he was trodding this treacherous path of transition from teen to adulthood. 

Imagine this: An illustration of the potentially crippling effect of labels in the workplace- so imagine you work in an sales office environment, people come and go, some sales people work from home, others have private offices and assistants and some have cubicles.  All the sales people are "independent contractors".  One lady sales person who had  huge personal life struggles at the begining of her sales career and garnered significant experience in dealing with and overcoming obstacles and made a succss of the sales position, against all odds.  A junior sales lady had her life thrown into chaos, with the breakdown of marriage and even ended up temporarily in a shelter.  She was at a crossroads in life and career.  Since she no longer had a spouse and needed to start earning a steady income she had decided to find a "steady job". This would present a challenge because of the current state of junior sales lady's life. She had no experience with one major product line in the industry, even though she had been in the industry over 7 years and was associated with her current organization ofer 5 years.  At the same time, experienced sales lady needed an assistant, but given the the office had a planned relocation to a neighbouring city within a six month period, experienced sales lady thought it would be impractical to hire a new assistant because of the immenent move.  She bumped into junior sales lady in the office who confided to her about her dilema.  Given her predisposition to help people, and knowing the difficulty Jr. sales lady would have, and knowing having an adea about her product knowledge and experience with the other major product line, Sr. sales lady got a flash - why not work out an arrangement whereby you fill in as "mentoree", (the words "assistant" were not used) since the organization has been encouraging the senior people to use mentorship as a way of bringing in new blood, as well as "exit strategy" for the folks who are looking retirement in the face.  This gesture of goodwill theoretically would work perfectly for both parties.  Jr Sales lady would get a steady income and would get time to decide if she wanted to stay in the industry and the role/direction to take  while learning from a Sr. person who had gone through some of the personal travails and  plight of Jr sales lady; learn first hand the other product line which she needed to master if she planned a long term career in the industry, and she would have a shot of taking over clients of Sr. sales lady if the arrangement worked out and a more permanent business arrangement could be made.  In this senario, everybody would be happy -  Company, Bossman, Sr. sales lady and Jr sales lady.  Sr. lady took this plan to the "boss", the boss agreed that this is a great idea, gave his blessings, so documents were drawn up and both sat with bossman to go over the details of the arrangement.  Bossman made some suggestion for change, gave his blessing and the day was saved!

Not so fast!  Firstly, it was a shocker for Sr. Lady to discover that Jr. Lady was not equipped for the position, not possessing the knowledge of products nor administrative skills, and wondered - more like lamented - how could this be possible!  No sooner Jr. lady started her assignment, the whining and complaining begun.  It didnt take long for Sr. lady to figure out that Jr. lady thought it was beneath her to work in the role thus reinforcing the "Not Good Enough" label in Sr lady.  During the period of "mentoring" Sr. lady was a tremendous help to Jr. lady, even though her heart and effort was not in the position, so much so that she was more like a coach than someone paying to get work done!  As soon as practical after the office relocation, the arrangement was cancelled, but the coaching never stopped.  Of course, Jr lady benefitted a great deal and so she survived and started to thrive, pulling the pieces together, her confidence started to come back and even got better than before her crash. And so she decided to stay with her sales position and the organization.  She had a review meeting with Bossman.  Bossman throroughly dressed her down for having taking the "mentoree" role, telling her that that was the worse career move she could ever have made.  Remember, Bossman runs branch offices for a large organization that encourages mentorship, he even had a couple of fancy lunch events where he invited all the senior sales people whom he felt were still growing their business to encourage them to get on board with the mentoring program!  Remember also, Jr. Lady worked in his office for over 5 years and didnt have the requisit product knowledge of line that brought in the most revenue to his offices. Again, by doing this, Bossman helped the person whom Sr. Lady literally rescued reinforced the "It's Beneath Me" label, while unconsciously reiterating the label him and his team put on Sr. Lady "You Are Not Good Enough", "You Are Not Deserving".  Good enough to give sound advice, for free of course, good enough to build a business from scratch, good enough to help your staff when you are not around or are not approachable with the kinds of queries they have, but not good enough to have a Jr. Sales person support you in a paying role and gaining invaluable experience both for life and career, and benefits the Bossman himself personally, his image of turning out successful sales people in the organization.  It is these times when folks like Sr sales lady have to remember who their redeemer is, have to remain strong in faith and above all remember who they ultimately work for - A God who sees everything and work everything for good to them that love him.

 Sr. sales lady had a major challenge overcoming the "Not Good Enough" label, but she did, and so can you!

Labels have always been with us in society.  I dont know for sure, but it almost seem like with our evolution as a materialist society where money and achievement is the yard stick by which success is measured the use of labels has multiplied, and the sting is more brutal!

I will continue to be vigilant, not only in eradicating negative labels from my life, but will use the wisdom gained in the process to help others see labels in their lives and guide them in the removal, with their permission of course.

Let the only label you wear today be this  "I am unique, one of a kind, I am here for a purpose, no one can fulfill that purose but me"!

MissSam